Yes, but explain the reason in advance (medical, religious). Hold a glass of juice or tea and still participate in toasts — you preserve the host's mianzi.

China Business Etiquette 2026: Guanxi, Mianzi, Negotiations & Banquets
Success in China negotiations depends less on price and more on whether you managed to build guanxi — personal trust relationships — and avoided damaging your partner's mianzi (their «face»). Below is a practical checklist drawn from 100+ visits of Ukrainian clients to Guangzhou, Shanghai and Yiwu.
Short answer
Key rules: business card always with both hands, facing the partner; gift should be symbolic (tea, vodka, regional souvenir), no clocks or sharp objects; host gives the first toast; never say a flat «no» publicly — it breaks mianzi; be punctual but tolerate 15–20-minute delays from the Chinese side.
Guanxi — the foundation
Guanxi (关系) is a network of personal connections and mutual favours. In China, business happens between people, not companies. The first contract is usually small — a reliability test. After 2–3 successful deals, better terms and exclusive offers open up.
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Mianzi — your partner's «face»
Mianzi (面子) is social status and public reputation. Never: (1) criticise a partner in front of subordinates; (2) demand a flat «no»; (3) argue loudly; (4) correct mistakes publicly — note them and discuss privately.
Business cards — first impression
Bring 100+ cards with a Chinese translation on the back. Rules:
- Present with both hands, text facing the partner.
- When receiving, place on the table — not straight into your pocket.
- Never write on a received card in the owner's presence.
- State your exact title — Chinese partners notice rank.
Gifts — what to do and what to avoid
An exchange of souvenirs is standard at a first meeting. Good options — tea from Ukraine, branded vodka, a regional souvenir. Avoid:
- Clocks (送钟 sounds like «sending to a funeral»).
- Sharp objects — knives, scissors (symbolise break-up).
- White or black wrapping (mourning). Go for red or gold.
- The number 4 — sounds like «death». Give 2, 6 or 8 items.
Negotiations and signing
Chinese partners negotiate slowly with many repetitions. Don't rush — it's a tactic. The first offer is rarely final, prepare for 2–3 rounds; don't name a price first; read the contract in both languages (Chinese + English); the chop (seal) matters more than the signature.
Banquets — baijiu and toasts
An invitation to a formal dinner is already a sign of trust. Rules: the host sits first, the seat of honour faces the door; the host gives the first toast; «ganbei» means «bottoms up» — warn in advance if you don't drink strong spirits; stand when clinking with a higher-ranking person; food is ordered for the whole table — try everything, or you insult the host.
10 mistakes that kill deals
China2Day's experience shows deals fail most often because of:
- 1. Direct criticism in front of the partner's colleagues.
- 2. Ignoring the business card.
- 3. A clock as a gift.
- 4. Asking for a «final price» at the first meeting.
- 5. Refusing baijiu without explanation.
- 6. Deadline ultimatums.
- 7. Discussing competitors publicly.
- 8. Phone/email during dinner.
- 9. Political topics (Taiwan, Hong Kong).
- 10. Ignoring Chinese holidays (CNY, Mid-Autumn).
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USD 20–50 per person is enough. Quality and symbolism matter more than price. Wrap it in red or gold, ideally with your company's logo.
Yes. Even if the partner offers one, your independent interpreter ensures you fully grasp every nuance of the contract. China2Day provides interpreters from UAH 800/day.
Calmly. A pause is thinking time or a pressure tactic. Don't rush to fill it with new concessions — let the partner speak first.